I knew what I wanted the theme to be: Dungeons & Dragons. I immediately googled 'best man duties' and discovered I was responsible for planning the bachelor party. I'm fortunate to be a member of a geeky family that revels in everything from Star Trek to 'Game of Thrones.' My brother's name 'Ara' is a shortened version of 'Aragorn' from 'Lord of the Rings.' And then he told me it was going to be a 'Lord of the Rings'-theme wedding. My brother texted to say he was getting married and he asked me to be his best (wo)man.